I know this going to sound stupid but how do I deal with this: I have different "groups" friends. In a few of them, I'm "the alpha male" or whatever. In others, though, the guys like to mess around a lot with other people. It's all in good fun (for them), and they never seriously hurt anyone but...let's say they tease me sometimes. Just about random stuff (what I'm wearing, what I'm doing, etc.). How do I respond to this? It's just kind of hard to be a quick-thinker...I'm working on it, but until then, is there any tips you can give me? Is there a way to improve my comebacks? Because sometimes, when I don't do anything, it makes me look kinda pu$$y-ish in front of girls. I don't want to completely leave these guys because they're nice and cool when they're not messing around...plus they're more pimp than me and I could learn a thing or two. What do I do?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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