I know this going to sound stupid but how do I deal with this: I have different "groups" friends. In a few of them, I'm "the alpha male" or whatever. In others, though, the guys like to mess around a lot with other people. It's all in good fun (for them), and they never seriously hurt anyone but...let's say they tease me sometimes. Just about random stuff (what I'm wearing, what I'm doing, etc.). How do I respond to this? It's just kind of hard to be a quick-thinker...I'm working on it, but until then, is there any tips you can give me? Is there a way to improve my comebacks? Because sometimes, when I don't do anything, it makes me look kinda pu$$y-ish in front of girls. I don't want to completely leave these guys because they're nice and cool when they're not messing around...plus they're more pimp than me and I could learn a thing or two. What do I do?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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