"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to deal with "sucking" at something

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Ok.

Well for example, I'm not a good bowler..at all. I feel lucky when I hit one pin down. I know I can get better at it, but I never really have enjoyed bowling. My friends frequently go to bowling and I go along so I don't have to stay at home.

Anyways what should I do/say when I really "suck" at something? I usually just say stuff like "Damn I'm good" when I get a gutter ball or whatever. I do, as a matter of fact, never say I suck even when I do.

Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you suck for creating a thread like this.
 
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figure it out, whichever response u feel comfortable with. You worry too much
 
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if you can make fun of yourself when you suck, you won't lose value

I hate bowling too brother :)
 
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dude your not the only one that sucks, im like that as well. just try to be funny about it.and dont let it get you down. take care.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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noirsake said:
How to deal with "sucking" at something? Thanks
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Be the best sucker out there - master the suck so that no one in the universe can out suck you! For example, if someone throws 3 gutter balls while bowling, then make sure you throw 6 gutter balls!
 
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