"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok.

Well for example, I'm not a good bowler..at all. I feel lucky when I hit one pin down. I know I can get better at it, but I never really have enjoyed bowling. My friends frequently go to bowling and I go along so I don't have to stay at home.

Anyways what should I do/say when I really "suck" at something? I usually just say stuff like "Damn I'm good" when I get a gutter ball or whatever. I do, as a matter of fact, never say I suck even when I do.

Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you suck for creating a thread like this.
 
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figure it out, whichever response u feel comfortable with. You worry too much
 
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if you can make fun of yourself when you suck, you won't lose value

I hate bowling too brother :)
 
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dude your not the only one that sucks, im like that as well. just try to be funny about it.and dont let it get you down. take care.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

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One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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noirsake said:
How to deal with "sucking" at something? Thanks
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Be the best sucker out there - master the suck so that no one in the universe can out suck you! For example, if someone throws 3 gutter balls while bowling, then make sure you throw 6 gutter balls!
 
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