"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to deal with "sucking" at something

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Ok.

Well for example, I'm not a good bowler..at all. I feel lucky when I hit one pin down. I know I can get better at it, but I never really have enjoyed bowling. My friends frequently go to bowling and I go along so I don't have to stay at home.

Anyways what should I do/say when I really "suck" at something? I usually just say stuff like "Damn I'm good" when I get a gutter ball or whatever. I do, as a matter of fact, never say I suck even when I do.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you suck for creating a thread like this.
 
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figure it out, whichever response u feel comfortable with. You worry too much
 
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if you can make fun of yourself when you suck, you won't lose value

I hate bowling too brother :)
 
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dude your not the only one that sucks, im like that as well. just try to be funny about it.and dont let it get you down. take care.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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noirsake said:
How to deal with "sucking" at something? Thanks
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Be the best sucker out there - master the suck so that no one in the universe can out suck you! For example, if someone throws 3 gutter balls while bowling, then make sure you throw 6 gutter balls!
 
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