Every day I am full of jealousy towards guys who get hot women, and jealousy or hate towards the hot women that are out of my reach. When I saw this scene I felt so fücking angry because never has a woman done something like that to me. 40 seconds in the hot woman begins to hit on him.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How to deal with jealousy?
- Thread starter edegoge
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Heat’s a brilliant movie. But it’s only a movie.
Romance in the movies is totally different from real life dude. This is just a scripted scene setting up a love interest.
As I said before in that other thread, if movie scenes and mild stimuli is filling you with jealousy and rage, go see a counsellor about it.
Even if you think it’s BS, I think it will make you feel much better.
Romance in the movies is totally different from real life dude. This is just a scripted scene setting up a love interest.
As I said before in that other thread, if movie scenes and mild stimuli is filling you with jealousy and rage, go see a counsellor about it.
Even if you think it’s BS, I think it will make you feel much better.
I already talked to a bunch of that type of people years ago, after a while I got totally fed up with them and said to myself never again.
That is a movie but I wouldn't be surprised if a man with his looks gets women hitting on him like that. I've seen women totally drooling over some men. For example one time about 13 years ago I was in a language course and we were in a pub outside school hours. We were three guys sitting together with a guy from school who was like an instructor for extracurricular activities. Three women from the course came over to our table just to sit next to him. They were totally drooling over him, totally ignoring me. One of them insulted me saying I was a child, if I recall correctly talking about me in third person. I was 20 at the time, which I told them, don't remember if someone there asked my age, maybe. That particular woman I think disliked me from just having observed me at another occasion at another pub. I remember the whole situation vividly and I hate those three women and that guy they were drooling over, he was a d1ck to me too.
Another time there was a woman in a store talking to the guy behind the counter, I remember how she was totally drooling over him. Hate both of them to this day, it was years ago.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I don't know, people do engage in small talk and in ends up turning into something. It's not like it never happens. Some guys get approached more than others. It doesn't do any good to get enraged over it though.
Also note that DeNiro is wearing a suit. A friend of mine met his wife this way: He was in a job where he wears a suit every day, and went to eat lunch at a food court. A woman came up to him and dropped off a slip of paper with her number on it. They're still married today.
Chev.Chelios
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read sex at dawn..
your jealous because guys are fvcking the girls you like and getting all the attention.
while you're in the typical scarcity based mentality 99% of men are stuck in.
you want the girls for yourself.
it's a form of competitive thinking.
try sharing all the girls you fvck for awhile, use condoms lol
your jealous because guys are fvcking the girls you like and getting all the attention.
while you're in the typical scarcity based mentality 99% of men are stuck in.
you want the girls for yourself.
it's a form of competitive thinking.
try sharing all the girls you fvck for awhile, use condoms lol