Every day I am full of jealousy towards guys who get hot women, and jealousy or hate towards the hot women that are out of my reach. When I saw this scene I felt so fücking angry because never has a woman done something like that to me. 40 seconds in the hot woman begins to hit on him.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How to deal with jealousy?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MoreThanSmooth
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Heat’s a brilliant movie. But it’s only a movie.
Romance in the movies is totally different from real life dude. This is just a scripted scene setting up a love interest.
As I said before in that other thread, if movie scenes and mild stimuli is filling you with jealousy and rage, go see a counsellor about it.
Even if you think it’s BS, I think it will make you feel much better.
Romance in the movies is totally different from real life dude. This is just a scripted scene setting up a love interest.
As I said before in that other thread, if movie scenes and mild stimuli is filling you with jealousy and rage, go see a counsellor about it.
Even if you think it’s BS, I think it will make you feel much better.
I already talked to a bunch of that type of people years ago, after a while I got totally fed up with them and said to myself never again.
That is a movie but I wouldn't be surprised if a man with his looks gets women hitting on him like that. I've seen women totally drooling over some men. For example one time about 13 years ago I was in a language course and we were in a pub outside school hours. We were three guys sitting together with a guy from school who was like an instructor for extracurricular activities. Three women from the course came over to our table just to sit next to him. They were totally drooling over him, totally ignoring me. One of them insulted me saying I was a child, if I recall correctly talking about me in third person. I was 20 at the time, which I told them, don't remember if someone there asked my age, maybe. That particular woman I think disliked me from just having observed me at another occasion at another pub. I remember the whole situation vividly and I hate those three women and that guy they were drooling over, he was a d1ck to me too.
Another time there was a woman in a store talking to the guy behind the counter, I remember how she was totally drooling over him. Hate both of them to this day, it was years ago.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I don't know, people do engage in small talk and in ends up turning into something. It's not like it never happens. Some guys get approached more than others. It doesn't do any good to get enraged over it though.
Also note that DeNiro is wearing a suit. A friend of mine met his wife this way: He was in a job where he wears a suit every day, and went to eat lunch at a food court. A woman came up to him and dropped off a slip of paper with her number on it. They're still married today.
Chev.Chelios
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read sex at dawn..
your jealous because guys are fvcking the girls you like and getting all the attention.
while you're in the typical scarcity based mentality 99% of men are stuck in.
you want the girls for yourself.
it's a form of competitive thinking.
try sharing all the girls you fvck for awhile, use condoms lol
your jealous because guys are fvcking the girls you like and getting all the attention.
while you're in the typical scarcity based mentality 99% of men are stuck in.
you want the girls for yourself.
it's a form of competitive thinking.
try sharing all the girls you fvck for awhile, use condoms lol