"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

How to consistently eat clean?

skinnyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2013
Messages
3,422
Reaction score
1,235
I don't eat Burger King or anything but my weakness is sweets. I always want some after a meal.

Since I've been working out a lot I don't have fast food cravings but how do you guys not want to cheat once in a while? I don't think I can get results until I completely cut out carbs and sweets.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
free days work... like once a week
 

speed dawg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2006
Messages
4,735
Reaction score
1,223
Location
The Dirty South
I don't eat Burger King or anything but my weakness is sweets. I always want some after a meal.

Since I've been working out a lot I don't have fast food cravings but how do you guys not want to cheat once in a while? I don't think I can get results until I completely cut out carbs and sweets.
Why not try something with fruit, and get some natural sugar? You might look into a shake of some sort, with bananas and honey.
 

HoneyHitter

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2006
Messages
496
Reaction score
202
Age
45
Try red or blue grapes.
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,577
Reaction score
6,360
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
Blackstrap molasses is a good cheating sugar. It has nutrients, a lot of flavor, and you'll find yourself using a much smaller amount of it compared to more processed sweets. I think blackstrap molasses is the healthiest processed sugar.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Armourhead

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 7, 2015
Messages
121
Reaction score
68
Age
37
Location
Ontario
Cheat days, if controlled and counted for, can work.
Save 10-20% of daily intake for sweets or "unhealthy stuff" you crave, if you ban yourself from eating certain stuff you'll just create a forbidden fruit that you'll eventually cave into.
Make drinks with artificial sweeteners
 

speed dawg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2006
Messages
4,735
Reaction score
1,223
Location
The Dirty South
Blackstrap molasses is a good cheating sugar. It has nutrients, a lot of flavor, and you'll find yourself using a much smaller amount of it compared to more processed sweets. I think blackstrap molasses is the healthiest processed sugar.
Further evidence that not all calories are created equally, even within the sugar family. I know when I eat refined sugar products, I have a terrible taste in my mouth about 20 minutes later among other things. Doesn't seem to happen that way with more natural sugars. Ultimately, to me, the body's reaction to this stuff is what tells me what's good and what isn't.
 

ChrisFloyd

Banned
Joined
Jul 10, 2014
Messages
163
Reaction score
21
Age
41
I personally think a once-a-week reward meal is fine...a 3 hour window of whatever you want to eat/drink.
3 hour... lol
For me, it must be 18-to-36-hour window.
Depends on how strict your diet in the week is though.
 

Who Dares Win

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2012
Messages
7,426
Reaction score
5,803
I agree with speed dawg, use fruit in moderate amount, it helps.

When I crave sweets I usually eat either a banana or strawberries, keep in mind that half of the work is not to buy them, if you have them at home its gonna be hard.
 

taiyuu_otoko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2008
Messages
5,771
Reaction score
4,874
Location
象外
Since I've been working out a lot I don't have fast food cravings but how do you guys not want to cheat once in a while? I don't think I can get results until I completely cut out carbs and sweets.
I'm in the same boat. The only time I feel REALLY good is after several WEEKS of not cheating. I eat less than 20 calories a day from carbs, zero sugar of any kind. Fats / protein only.

Ketogenic / Paleo mix.Then again, I'm almost 50 and my metabolism has slowed down a bit. Ten years ago I would have gone crazy without at LEAST one day a week cheating. My problem was that "one day" of cheating had a fifty percent chance of turning into two days, etc...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

DiegoSantori

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 31, 2015
Messages
269
Reaction score
105
You have to swap your favorite less-nutritious foods for healtier options, so you don't feel like you're missing something.

For example:

This



Instead of that


 

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
Blackstrap molasses is a good cheating sugar. It has nutrients, a lot of flavor, and you'll find yourself using a much smaller amount of it compared to more processed sweets. I think blackstrap molasses is the healthiest processed sugar.
Love that stuff, it's so good! Prunes work well here also. And they regulate your gut.
Feels good, too!!!
 

speed dawg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2006
Messages
4,735
Reaction score
1,223
Location
The Dirty South
You have to swap your favorite less-nutritious foods for healtier options, so you don't feel like you're missing something.

For example:

This



Instead of that

This has never worked for me, but I certainly assume it can for others.

I prefer eating exactly what I want, on a limited basis. Right now I am staying on a daily calorie count, so if I know I'm eating a buffet or donuts I limit the calories the rest of the day, and make them super nutritious to make up for the empty calories. Working pretty well, and makes those cheat meals more enjoyable, I don't have to worry about it.

I try to make 18 of the 21 meals I eat throughout the week fairly healthy. The other 3 I splurge. I also never go into a restaurant aiming to eat healthy, waste of money I say. If I'm paying inflated prices for being served, I want to enjoy the food/drink. If I can find something that is healthy/cheap/good, I'll do it, but that's nearly impossible. Say you go to a steakhouse and order a sirloin salad. Good choice health-wise, but probably overpriced. Then, are you going to give up the free rolls? Not a chance, in my case.
 

DiegoSantori

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 31, 2015
Messages
269
Reaction score
105
Working pretty well, and makes those cheat meals more enjoyable, I don't have to worry about it.
You can eat anything as long as it fits your macros. If a Mc Donalds burger fits your daily macros, it is okay to have it. If you gain too much body fat, you can simply either miss a cheat meal or reduce the size of your cheat meals. So, if this is the strategy that works for you, then do it! ;)
 

cola

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 26, 2009
Messages
2,224
Reaction score
3,002
Location
Baltimore
You can eat anything as long as it fits your macros. If a Mc Donalds burger fits your daily macros, it is okay to have it. If you gain too much body fat, you can simply either miss a cheat meal or reduce the size of your cheat meals. So, if this is the strategy that works for you, then do it! ;)
Yeah you don't want to "eat clean" you want to hit your macros then eat whatever you like as long as it fits your calorie goals
Any other way and you will end up binging
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

daddymonsterpoodle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2015
Messages
707
Reaction score
428
Age
56
Only eat her out after a shower...
 

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
I'm a big believer that it is better to give in to your cravings once in a while than deprive yourself and then go full on ballistic once you can no longer control yourself.
 
Top