"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to catch flaking when getting her #.

ScrewIt

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Here's what I like to do to try to catch them in a lie when they are giving me their phone number:

1. If I'm at a bar, nightclub, concert, party, etc. after I get their phone number, I will excuse myself and go to a telephone or pay phone and call the number she gave me. If it's a non-working number or someone answers and they never heard of her, then I know she gave me a phony number. Then I will go back to her and express my displeasure of giving me the runaround on giving me her phone number. Needless to say, I don't want anything to do with her after playing games with my head.

2. Here's another good way to catch them in a lie: Always carry a pen and piece of paper with you. When she tells you her phone number, write it down. Then immediately say, "I think I have this wrong, what was that phone number again?" If it's different from the original number she gave you, then I would be suspicious about her trying to give you a phony number.

Great Piece of advice i found from another site.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Best friends? NAY

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Seems like a good tip but.....

If she gives you a wrong number then you shouldn't worry about her anymore. You should move on to the next hot chick that crosses your path.
 

dereklearnslow

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What if you call the # and it's legit. That would lead to some akward conversation....
 

DraGon_luv

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Do this bro


when while your writing her number down she tell you


its 754-8235

then you say/write 754-8234


If shes interested she will corect you,

if not she will let you write down the fake number



; )


good luck broz
 

DeathDealer

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Originally posted by Best friends? NAY
Seems like a good tip but.....

If she gives you a wrong number then you shouldn't worry about her anymore. You should move on to the next hot chick that crosses your path.
I agree with this statement. If the girl was bullshatting you and gave you a fake number. You got your answer.

Getting a number is just half the battle.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What if she gives you her number but doesn't seem very interested when she gives it to you. Would you still call?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Why not skip the BS and just ask her out. If she's interested in you she'll accept. If a number exchange is necessary, she'll offer it.

It's like you guys are going after numbers as trophies, as if the number alone is the prize. Numbers are worthless unless she's interested in you enough to go out on a date.
 
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