"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to catch flaking when getting her #.

ScrewIt

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Here's what I like to do to try to catch them in a lie when they are giving me their phone number:

1. If I'm at a bar, nightclub, concert, party, etc. after I get their phone number, I will excuse myself and go to a telephone or pay phone and call the number she gave me. If it's a non-working number or someone answers and they never heard of her, then I know she gave me a phony number. Then I will go back to her and express my displeasure of giving me the runaround on giving me her phone number. Needless to say, I don't want anything to do with her after playing games with my head.

2. Here's another good way to catch them in a lie: Always carry a pen and piece of paper with you. When she tells you her phone number, write it down. Then immediately say, "I think I have this wrong, what was that phone number again?" If it's different from the original number she gave you, then I would be suspicious about her trying to give you a phony number.

Great Piece of advice i found from another site.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best friends? NAY

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Seems like a good tip but.....

If she gives you a wrong number then you shouldn't worry about her anymore. You should move on to the next hot chick that crosses your path.
 

dereklearnslow

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What if you call the # and it's legit. That would lead to some akward conversation....
 

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Do this bro


when while your writing her number down she tell you


its 754-8235

then you say/write 754-8234


If shes interested she will corect you,

if not she will let you write down the fake number



; )


good luck broz
 

DeathDealer

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Originally posted by Best friends? NAY
Seems like a good tip but.....

If she gives you a wrong number then you shouldn't worry about her anymore. You should move on to the next hot chick that crosses your path.
I agree with this statement. If the girl was bullshatting you and gave you a fake number. You got your answer.

Getting a number is just half the battle.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What if she gives you her number but doesn't seem very interested when she gives it to you. Would you still call?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Why not skip the BS and just ask her out. If she's interested in you she'll accept. If a number exchange is necessary, she'll offer it.

It's like you guys are going after numbers as trophies, as if the number alone is the prize. Numbers are worthless unless she's interested in you enough to go out on a date.
 
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