"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to casually ask for the number but keep my intents clear?

thenewreign

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Basically what the title says. How would I get a number from girls at school who I see pretty regularly? "Hey, let me get your number" is straight forward and clear in my intents but I can't see it being very smooth. Also, if we're hanging out for a while would it be better to get the number during the hangout or before we go separate ways?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stort_Brød

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from personal experience if the "hangout" or date goes well just before we part ways I usually say something like "hey you seem like fun or interesting or whatever we should hangout or do this again soon, give me your number and I'll call you"

just make sure that she has a decent interest level or you most likely will get shot down or the fake number. Kino her when you hang out and see how she responds to that
 

Skyline

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I had this same problem earlier in the school year. I realized asking girls's numbers, whom i see/talk to regularly, for their number wanting to get to know them more was too straight forward. Im currently trying to expand my social circle and stuff like that gives the wrong message.

How did i do it? If we have a class in common or we have a group project i simply asked them to text me the answers and such. I also used apps like SnapChat as a second option until they felt like talking to me through text.

That route is safe for girls you see or talk to regularly. However the "I have to get going give me your number and lets talk later" one works well for brief interactions.
 

gsj23421

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go up to her flirt with her and talk to her then say hey we should/were gonna hang out sometime. whats ur number? there you go
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thenewreign

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gsj23421 said:
go up to her flirt with her and talk to her then say hey we should/were gonna hang out sometime. whats ur number? there you go
Wow thank you, sometimes I forget that it's really that simple. Need to stop over thinking.
 
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