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How to casually ask for the number but keep my intents clear?

thenewreign

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Basically what the title says. How would I get a number from girls at school who I see pretty regularly? "Hey, let me get your number" is straight forward and clear in my intents but I can't see it being very smooth. Also, if we're hanging out for a while would it be better to get the number during the hangout or before we go separate ways?
 

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Stort_Brød

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from personal experience if the "hangout" or date goes well just before we part ways I usually say something like "hey you seem like fun or interesting or whatever we should hangout or do this again soon, give me your number and I'll call you"

just make sure that she has a decent interest level or you most likely will get shot down or the fake number. Kino her when you hang out and see how she responds to that
 

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I had this same problem earlier in the school year. I realized asking girls's numbers, whom i see/talk to regularly, for their number wanting to get to know them more was too straight forward. Im currently trying to expand my social circle and stuff like that gives the wrong message.

How did i do it? If we have a class in common or we have a group project i simply asked them to text me the answers and such. I also used apps like SnapChat as a second option until they felt like talking to me through text.

That route is safe for girls you see or talk to regularly. However the "I have to get going give me your number and lets talk later" one works well for brief interactions.
 

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go up to her flirt with her and talk to her then say hey we should/were gonna hang out sometime. whats ur number? there you go
 

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thenewreign

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gsj23421 said:
go up to her flirt with her and talk to her then say hey we should/were gonna hang out sometime. whats ur number? there you go
Wow thank you, sometimes I forget that it's really that simple. Need to stop over thinking.
 
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