"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to casually ask for the number but keep my intents clear?

thenewreign

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Basically what the title says. How would I get a number from girls at school who I see pretty regularly? "Hey, let me get your number" is straight forward and clear in my intents but I can't see it being very smooth. Also, if we're hanging out for a while would it be better to get the number during the hangout or before we go separate ways?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stort_Brød

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from personal experience if the "hangout" or date goes well just before we part ways I usually say something like "hey you seem like fun or interesting or whatever we should hangout or do this again soon, give me your number and I'll call you"

just make sure that she has a decent interest level or you most likely will get shot down or the fake number. Kino her when you hang out and see how she responds to that
 

Skyline

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I had this same problem earlier in the school year. I realized asking girls's numbers, whom i see/talk to regularly, for their number wanting to get to know them more was too straight forward. Im currently trying to expand my social circle and stuff like that gives the wrong message.

How did i do it? If we have a class in common or we have a group project i simply asked them to text me the answers and such. I also used apps like SnapChat as a second option until they felt like talking to me through text.

That route is safe for girls you see or talk to regularly. However the "I have to get going give me your number and lets talk later" one works well for brief interactions.
 

gsj23421

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go up to her flirt with her and talk to her then say hey we should/were gonna hang out sometime. whats ur number? there you go
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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thenewreign

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gsj23421 said:
go up to her flirt with her and talk to her then say hey we should/were gonna hang out sometime. whats ur number? there you go
Wow thank you, sometimes I forget that it's really that simple. Need to stop over thinking.
 
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