ElCubanito13
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I got a simple question...How do you build rapport????
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ahhh, but what about falling into the friend zone??War Against Betaism said:Communication. That's it. Just be a good conversationalist and you're good to go. If you're wondering how to do that, there's this book that I recommend to everyone called "How To Make Great Conversation And Small Talk" by Sean McPheat. I've read a lot of seduction guides and advice given in these forums and they fail to cover the most important part of a relationship with not just a woman, but with anyone, and that is communication. This book literally changed me overnight.
That's what the other half of your game is for, but if you want to build good rapport, communication is the answer.ElCubanito13 said:ahhh, but what about falling into the friend zone??
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
fertileTurtle said:Communication: Simple enough. Thanks WAB. Examples?