ElCubanito13
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I got a simple question...How do you build rapport????
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How to build rapport???
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Communication. That's it. Just be a good conversationalist and you're good to go. If you're wondering how to do that, there's this book that I recommend to everyone called "How To Make Great Conversation And Small Talk" by Sean McPheat. I've read a lot of seduction guides and advice given in these forums and they fail to cover the most important part of a relationship with not just a woman, but with anyone, and that is communication. This book literally changed me overnight.
ElCubanito13
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ahhh, but what about falling into the friend zone??War Against Betaism said:Communication. That's it. Just be a good conversationalist and you're good to go. If you're wondering how to do that, there's this book that I recommend to everyone called "How To Make Great Conversation And Small Talk" by Sean McPheat. I've read a lot of seduction guides and advice given in these forums and they fail to cover the most important part of a relationship with not just a woman, but with anyone, and that is communication. This book literally changed me overnight.
War Against Betaism
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That's what the other half of your game is for, but if you want to build good rapport, communication is the answer.ElCubanito13 said:ahhh, but what about falling into the friend zone??
eaglez1177
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Betaism hit the nail on the head
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
fertileTurtle
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Communication: Simple enough. Thanks WAB. Examples?
pjtheman
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fertileTurtle said:Communication: Simple enough. Thanks WAB. Examples?
there are no examples that can be given here my friend, comunication is something you learn in the field not from the screen. if you were to learn how to have the most interessting conversation on earth but went out and found you were to nervous to do it what was the point of learning when you should've bbeen experiancing