"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to build comfort?

deltoro86

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What are some comfort building methods/routines?

I'd specifically like canned material as many of you know, newbies when given material that already has been test perform with more confidence. Thus, dont TELL ME to make up my own stuff as of right now, I'm nowhere near the level of a natural.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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deltoro86 said:
What are some comfort building methods/routines?

I'd specifically like canned material as many of you know, newbies when given material that already has been test perform with more confidence. Thus, dont TELL ME to make up my own stuff as of right now, I'm nowhere near the level of a natural.
Dude,building comfort is esay. Just talk. You don't need some routine or canned material for comfort. All comfort is is turning off game. Exchanging names,learning things like her age,hobbies,taste in music,goals,etc. All of this,as well as you sharing these things about yourself to her. The thing is this:YOU HAVE TO GENERATE ATTRACTION IN HER FIRST. It's attraction first,then you build the comfort. If you skip the attraction stage and just go straight to the comfort building,it's a one-way ticket to the friendzone.
 
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