"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What are some comfort building methods/routines?

I'd specifically like canned material as many of you know, newbies when given material that already has been test perform with more confidence. Thus, dont TELL ME to make up my own stuff as of right now, I'm nowhere near the level of a natural.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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deltoro86 said:
What are some comfort building methods/routines?

I'd specifically like canned material as many of you know, newbies when given material that already has been test perform with more confidence. Thus, dont TELL ME to make up my own stuff as of right now, I'm nowhere near the level of a natural.
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Dude,building comfort is esay. Just talk. You don't need some routine or canned material for comfort. All comfort is is turning off game. Exchanging names,learning things like her age,hobbies,taste in music,goals,etc. All of this,as well as you sharing these things about yourself to her. The thing is this:YOU HAVE TO GENERATE ATTRACTION IN HER FIRST. It's attraction first,then you build the comfort. If you skip the attraction stage and just go straight to the comfort building,it's a one-way ticket to the friendzone.
 
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