"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to build comfort?

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What are some comfort building methods/routines?

I'd specifically like canned material as many of you know, newbies when given material that already has been test perform with more confidence. Thus, dont TELL ME to make up my own stuff as of right now, I'm nowhere near the level of a natural.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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deltoro86 said:
What are some comfort building methods/routines?

I'd specifically like canned material as many of you know, newbies when given material that already has been test perform with more confidence. Thus, dont TELL ME to make up my own stuff as of right now, I'm nowhere near the level of a natural.
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Dude,building comfort is esay. Just talk. You don't need some routine or canned material for comfort. All comfort is is turning off game. Exchanging names,learning things like her age,hobbies,taste in music,goals,etc. All of this,as well as you sharing these things about yourself to her. The thing is this:YOU HAVE TO GENERATE ATTRACTION IN HER FIRST. It's attraction first,then you build the comfort. If you skip the attraction stage and just go straight to the comfort building,it's a one-way ticket to the friendzone.
 
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