"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to build comfort?

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What are some comfort building methods/routines?

I'd specifically like canned material as many of you know, newbies when given material that already has been test perform with more confidence. Thus, dont TELL ME to make up my own stuff as of right now, I'm nowhere near the level of a natural.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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deltoro86 said:
What are some comfort building methods/routines?

I'd specifically like canned material as many of you know, newbies when given material that already has been test perform with more confidence. Thus, dont TELL ME to make up my own stuff as of right now, I'm nowhere near the level of a natural.
Dude,building comfort is esay. Just talk. You don't need some routine or canned material for comfort. All comfort is is turning off game. Exchanging names,learning things like her age,hobbies,taste in music,goals,etc. All of this,as well as you sharing these things about yourself to her. The thing is this:YOU HAVE TO GENERATE ATTRACTION IN HER FIRST. It's attraction first,then you build the comfort. If you skip the attraction stage and just go straight to the comfort building,it's a one-way ticket to the friendzone.
 
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