The Eurasian
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Just wondering how you would bring up this topic during a conversation without it coming off as weird or random, especially around more timid girls?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How to bring up topic of sex during conversation?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i learned a lesson. i brought up sex the first night me and an HB7 hung out and I got LJBF'd by her and then a week later, we went out again and turned it around and banged her....Willis said:
so my advice, dont bring it up...
nightcrawler
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just make an innuendo and go from there.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
I totally agree with Captain in this post. Actually , im agreeing with him in a lot of his posts.
But you can bring it up verbally too. On phone and on MSN , i usually tell them that i would fvck the sh1t out of them , would make them *** so hard that they wont be able to stand up. Than i would proceed to tell them how i would lick their pvssy until the scream and beg me to stop but i wont
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But if ur not comfortable and congruent with this , DONT USE.
But you can bring it up verbally too. On phone and on MSN , i usually tell them that i would fvck the sh1t out of them , would make them *** so hard that they wont be able to stand up. Than i would proceed to tell them how i would lick their pvssy until the scream and beg me to stop but i wont
.But if ur not comfortable and congruent with this , DONT USE.
MascaraSnake
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I talk very, very openly about my sexual likes/dislikes and I've found a lot of women are just fine with it (quite a few aren't; there are ways to figure that out). I obviously avoid any chatting about how good I am in the sack or what techniques I use, as that should be more or less kept a mystery.
Not sure if open sex chatter really affects thing either way, would love to hear more on this.
Not sure if open sex chatter really affects thing either way, would love to hear more on this.
MisterMcGee
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Honestly that works on some girls, or situations where you and the girl have made it clear that youre purely sexually interested in another.Daddy The Pimp said:tell them that i would fvck the sh1t out of them , would make them *** so hard that they wont be able to stand up. Than i would proceed to tell them how i would lick their pvssy until the scream and beg me to stop but i wont
But if ur not comfortable and congruent with this , DONT USE.
However, if youve got rapport and such, and something good going (rare), then saying this stuff can be corny and tryhard unless you're isolated and about to bang 'em (when youre both in the lets-fvck state).
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
True . Some girls freak the fvck out.MisterMcGee said:
But some really love it. Its either GREAT or AWFUL.
Canadian Catnip
Senior Don Juan
Here is a question for this thread.
Is a girl initiating a conversation about sex if she uses the word c0ck instead of penis?
I was chatting with a girl I know and suddenly she started talking about some guy that took a picture of himself sitting with a large rock between his legs.
She tells me that the rock sticking out looked like a giant c0ck. She could have said the rock looked like a giant penis.
Did she bringing up sex when she said that? or was it that she did not know to say penis?
Most women would have said penis I guess, unless she wanted to sound a little vulgar and get the ball rolling with me.
Is a girl initiating a conversation about sex if she uses the word c0ck instead of penis?
I was chatting with a girl I know and suddenly she started talking about some guy that took a picture of himself sitting with a large rock between his legs.
She tells me that the rock sticking out looked like a giant c0ck. She could have said the rock looked like a giant penis.
Did she bringing up sex when she said that? or was it that she did not know to say penis?
Most women would have said penis I guess, unless she wanted to sound a little vulgar and get the ball rolling with me.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.