Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to bring up topic of sex during conversation?

The Eurasian

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Just wondering how you would bring up this topic during a conversation without it coming off as weird or random, especially around more timid girls?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Willis

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Dont...
let the chick bring it up and 99% of the time they will...

jus act like sex is boring or u dont even care about it...
works for me..
 

909pua

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Willis said:
Dont...
let the chick bring it up and 99% of the time they will...

jus act like sex is boring or u dont even care about it...
works for me..
i learned a lesson. i brought up sex the first night me and an HB7 hung out and I got LJBF'd by her and then a week later, we went out again and turned it around and banged her....

so my advice, dont bring it up...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Daddy The Pimp

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I totally agree with Captain in this post. Actually , im agreeing with him in a lot of his posts.


But you can bring it up verbally too. On phone and on MSN , i usually tell them that i would fvck the sh1t out of them , would make them *** so hard that they wont be able to stand up. Than i would proceed to tell them how i would lick their pvssy until the scream and beg me to stop but i wont :p.

But if ur not comfortable and congruent with this , DONT USE.
 

MascaraSnake

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I talk very, very openly about my sexual likes/dislikes and I've found a lot of women are just fine with it (quite a few aren't; there are ways to figure that out). I obviously avoid any chatting about how good I am in the sack or what techniques I use, as that should be more or less kept a mystery.

Not sure if open sex chatter really affects thing either way, would love to hear more on this.
 

MisterMcGee

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Daddy The Pimp said:
tell them that i would fvck the sh1t out of them , would make them *** so hard that they wont be able to stand up. Than i would proceed to tell them how i would lick their pvssy until the scream and beg me to stop but i wont :p.

But if ur not comfortable and congruent with this , DONT USE.
Honestly that works on some girls, or situations where you and the girl have made it clear that youre purely sexually interested in another.
However, if youve got rapport and such, and something good going (rare), then saying this stuff can be corny and tryhard unless you're isolated and about to bang 'em (when youre both in the lets-fvck state).
 

Canadian Catnip

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Here is a question for this thread.

Is a girl initiating a conversation about sex if she uses the word c0ck instead of penis?

I was chatting with a girl I know and suddenly she started talking about some guy that took a picture of himself sitting with a large rock between his legs.

She tells me that the rock sticking out looked like a giant c0ck. She could have said the rock looked like a giant penis.

Did she bringing up sex when she said that? or was it that she did not know to say penis?

Most women would have said penis I guess, unless she wanted to sound a little vulgar and get the ball rolling with me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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