The Eurasian
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Just wondering how you would bring up this topic during a conversation without it coming off as weird or random, especially around more timid girls?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How to bring up topic of sex during conversation?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i learned a lesson. i brought up sex the first night me and an HB7 hung out and I got LJBF'd by her and then a week later, we went out again and turned it around and banged her....Willis said:
so my advice, dont bring it up...
nightcrawler
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just make an innuendo and go from there.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
I totally agree with Captain in this post. Actually , im agreeing with him in a lot of his posts.
But you can bring it up verbally too. On phone and on MSN , i usually tell them that i would fvck the sh1t out of them , would make them *** so hard that they wont be able to stand up. Than i would proceed to tell them how i would lick their pvssy until the scream and beg me to stop but i wont
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But if ur not comfortable and congruent with this , DONT USE.
But you can bring it up verbally too. On phone and on MSN , i usually tell them that i would fvck the sh1t out of them , would make them *** so hard that they wont be able to stand up. Than i would proceed to tell them how i would lick their pvssy until the scream and beg me to stop but i wont
.But if ur not comfortable and congruent with this , DONT USE.
MascaraSnake
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I talk very, very openly about my sexual likes/dislikes and I've found a lot of women are just fine with it (quite a few aren't; there are ways to figure that out). I obviously avoid any chatting about how good I am in the sack or what techniques I use, as that should be more or less kept a mystery.
Not sure if open sex chatter really affects thing either way, would love to hear more on this.
Not sure if open sex chatter really affects thing either way, would love to hear more on this.
MisterMcGee
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Honestly that works on some girls, or situations where you and the girl have made it clear that youre purely sexually interested in another.Daddy The Pimp said:tell them that i would fvck the sh1t out of them , would make them *** so hard that they wont be able to stand up. Than i would proceed to tell them how i would lick their pvssy until the scream and beg me to stop but i wont
But if ur not comfortable and congruent with this , DONT USE.
However, if youve got rapport and such, and something good going (rare), then saying this stuff can be corny and tryhard unless you're isolated and about to bang 'em (when youre both in the lets-fvck state).
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
True . Some girls freak the fvck out.MisterMcGee said:
But some really love it. Its either GREAT or AWFUL.
Canadian Catnip
Senior Don Juan
Here is a question for this thread.
Is a girl initiating a conversation about sex if she uses the word c0ck instead of penis?
I was chatting with a girl I know and suddenly she started talking about some guy that took a picture of himself sitting with a large rock between his legs.
She tells me that the rock sticking out looked like a giant c0ck. She could have said the rock looked like a giant penis.
Did she bringing up sex when she said that? or was it that she did not know to say penis?
Most women would have said penis I guess, unless she wanted to sound a little vulgar and get the ball rolling with me.
Is a girl initiating a conversation about sex if she uses the word c0ck instead of penis?
I was chatting with a girl I know and suddenly she started talking about some guy that took a picture of himself sitting with a large rock between his legs.
She tells me that the rock sticking out looked like a giant c0ck. She could have said the rock looked like a giant penis.
Did she bringing up sex when she said that? or was it that she did not know to say penis?
Most women would have said penis I guess, unless she wanted to sound a little vulgar and get the ball rolling with me.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.