"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to bring back sexual attraction?

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I'm working on my side project to bring back my ex-girlfriend. We've recently started hanging out and the attraction is on the rise! But not necessarily sexual attraction. We already had sex plenty of times a month ago. I am trying to get that back.

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We were laying on the couch, leaning on each other. I stood up to change the channel. And i stayed stood up for awhile until she did something. She pulled me back down on her. She wants to be next to me all the time.

Physical attraction is there. But how would i show sexual attraction. We haven't started kissing again. Just deep good hugs when we first see each other and leave each other.

What should i try for the next time i see her? She's always calling and wants me.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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girlsarecrazy said:
We were laying on the couch, leaning on each other. I stood up to change the channel. And i stayed stood up for awhile until she did something. She pulled me back down on her. She wants to be next to me all the time.

Physical attraction is there. But how would i show sexual attraction. We have started kissing again. Just deep good hugs when we first see each other and leave each other.

She's always calling and wants me.
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BIG TYPO: We haven't started kissing again

This is what i think is going on in her head. "I want him, Wait.. didn't i dump him, Is this really happening again."

So if i make a move i don't know how she'll react just yet. We haven't had an intense cuddle or had extreme closeness yet either.

Other than kissing. Anyone know of significant things to try?
 
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It's a side project man.. She's just confused right now. I think it's hilarious. I'm trying to turn her into a booty call.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i thought you had a girlfriend that you see often and was trying to extend that relationship? why in the world do you even care about your ex? unless she is the 'girlfriend' you were talking about in your last thread..what's really going on? :confused:
 
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