"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to bring back sexual attraction?

girlsarecrazy

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I'm working on my side project to bring back my ex-girlfriend. We've recently started hanging out and the attraction is on the rise! But not necessarily sexual attraction. We already had sex plenty of times a month ago. I am trying to get that back.

For example:

We were laying on the couch, leaning on each other. I stood up to change the channel. And i stayed stood up for awhile until she did something. She pulled me back down on her. She wants to be next to me all the time.

Physical attraction is there. But how would i show sexual attraction. We haven't started kissing again. Just deep good hugs when we first see each other and leave each other.

What should i try for the next time i see her? She's always calling and wants me.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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girlsarecrazy said:
We were laying on the couch, leaning on each other. I stood up to change the channel. And i stayed stood up for awhile until she did something. She pulled me back down on her. She wants to be next to me all the time.

Physical attraction is there. But how would i show sexual attraction. We have started kissing again. Just deep good hugs when we first see each other and leave each other.

She's always calling and wants me.
You answered your own question.
 

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BIG TYPO: We haven't started kissing again

This is what i think is going on in her head. "I want him, Wait.. didn't i dump him, Is this really happening again."

So if i make a move i don't know how she'll react just yet. We haven't had an intense cuddle or had extreme closeness yet either.

Other than kissing. Anyone know of significant things to try?
 

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It's a side project man.. She's just confused right now. I think it's hilarious. I'm trying to turn her into a booty call.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i thought you had a girlfriend that you see often and was trying to extend that relationship? why in the world do you even care about your ex? unless she is the 'girlfriend' you were talking about in your last thread..what's really going on? :confused:
 
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