"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to bring back sexual attraction?

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I'm working on my side project to bring back my ex-girlfriend. We've recently started hanging out and the attraction is on the rise! But not necessarily sexual attraction. We already had sex plenty of times a month ago. I am trying to get that back.

For example:

We were laying on the couch, leaning on each other. I stood up to change the channel. And i stayed stood up for awhile until she did something. She pulled me back down on her. She wants to be next to me all the time.

Physical attraction is there. But how would i show sexual attraction. We haven't started kissing again. Just deep good hugs when we first see each other and leave each other.

What should i try for the next time i see her? She's always calling and wants me.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girlsarecrazy said:
We were laying on the couch, leaning on each other. I stood up to change the channel. And i stayed stood up for awhile until she did something. She pulled me back down on her. She wants to be next to me all the time.

Physical attraction is there. But how would i show sexual attraction. We have started kissing again. Just deep good hugs when we first see each other and leave each other.

She's always calling and wants me.
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BIG TYPO: We haven't started kissing again

This is what i think is going on in her head. "I want him, Wait.. didn't i dump him, Is this really happening again."

So if i make a move i don't know how she'll react just yet. We haven't had an intense cuddle or had extreme closeness yet either.

Other than kissing. Anyone know of significant things to try?
 
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It's a side project man.. She's just confused right now. I think it's hilarious. I'm trying to turn her into a booty call.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i thought you had a girlfriend that you see often and was trying to extend that relationship? why in the world do you even care about your ex? unless she is the 'girlfriend' you were talking about in your last thread..what's really going on? :confused:
 
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