"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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when a girls uses her body/your feelings to control you.

For me when my girl is with me, I get an erection & it becomes difficult to say no to the testosterone. Often it's up to her to decide what is being done.
Like I'm with her, we're in the car, this is not practical, but I want to have sex. She hates being banged in a car (I agree it's not kinda romantic), but guess what I want to.

Sometimes I force her in to this, but sometimes I don't want to, cause i know it's no fun to hear & I think she feels like an object when I do this.

Personally I hate it when she starts saying: "I don't want to" & takes the leads by saying "I want to go home/we're going home" bla bla, I'm not always in the mood for forcing her.

your advice plz
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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advice?

Seek professional therapy.
 
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How do you 'force' her? If she's the one in control, she's setting the conditions for her intimacy.

Romance has nothing to do with it, desire is all. If you're not having sex with her as frequently or as passionately as you'd like, spin more plates. Find a woman that does meet your standards that has a passion for you. This girl's desire for you has limitations. Women will fvck guys they have a genuine desire to fvck. Women will find ways to fvck a guy they're into - they'll crawl under barbedwire and travel across the country to get after it with a guy they really want, and yes they'll fvck in a car more often than not and even outside the club she met you in IF she has a real desire to do so. This one doesn't.

NEXT.
 
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I'm with rollo, man. My last long term relationship (long time ago when I was AFC) was full of that crap. She even told me that "only wh@res give oral and no girls swallow except pronstars" Fast forward to now and I can't even find a girl that WON'T blow me and swallow. I've done all kinds of crazy $hit and had plenty of $ex in public places and, yes, even cars......

My point is that my last gf just did't WANT to go down on me or get crazy with me and it took me having a few chicks all over me to even understand that.

When a girl wants you she will even INITIATE sex. Like I said, if you've never had a girl that was REALLY nuts about you you buy into this crap. Once you know what it's like to have a girl really hot for you the kind of stuff you're talking about becomes CLEARLY BS and stall tactics on her part.

I say start studying up on creating attraction and learn to make women want you more and then next her.......

gixx
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dear Newbie,
This post was "How to be sexually strong"...For your next I suggest,"How can I nail Jelly to the ceiling?"LOL.
 
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