"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to be Sexually strong

newbie81

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when a girls uses her body/your feelings to control you.

For me when my girl is with me, I get an erection & it becomes difficult to say no to the testosterone. Often it's up to her to decide what is being done.
Like I'm with her, we're in the car, this is not practical, but I want to have sex. She hates being banged in a car (I agree it's not kinda romantic), but guess what I want to.

Sometimes I force her in to this, but sometimes I don't want to, cause i know it's no fun to hear & I think she feels like an object when I do this.

Personally I hate it when she starts saying: "I don't want to" & takes the leads by saying "I want to go home/we're going home" bla bla, I'm not always in the mood for forcing her.

your advice plz
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kenturkey

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advice?

Seek professional therapy.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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How do you 'force' her? If she's the one in control, she's setting the conditions for her intimacy.

Romance has nothing to do with it, desire is all. If you're not having sex with her as frequently or as passionately as you'd like, spin more plates. Find a woman that does meet your standards that has a passion for you. This girl's desire for you has limitations. Women will fvck guys they have a genuine desire to fvck. Women will find ways to fvck a guy they're into - they'll crawl under barbedwire and travel across the country to get after it with a guy they really want, and yes they'll fvck in a car more often than not and even outside the club she met you in IF she has a real desire to do so. This one doesn't.

NEXT.
 

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I'm with rollo, man. My last long term relationship (long time ago when I was AFC) was full of that crap. She even told me that "only wh@res give oral and no girls swallow except pronstars" Fast forward to now and I can't even find a girl that WON'T blow me and swallow. I've done all kinds of crazy $hit and had plenty of $ex in public places and, yes, even cars......

My point is that my last gf just did't WANT to go down on me or get crazy with me and it took me having a few chicks all over me to even understand that.

When a girl wants you she will even INITIATE sex. Like I said, if you've never had a girl that was REALLY nuts about you you buy into this crap. Once you know what it's like to have a girl really hot for you the kind of stuff you're talking about becomes CLEARLY BS and stall tactics on her part.

I say start studying up on creating attraction and learn to make women want you more and then next her.......

gixx
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Scaramouche

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Dear Newbie,
This post was "How to be sexually strong"...For your next I suggest,"How can I nail Jelly to the ceiling?"LOL.
 
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