"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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when a girls uses her body/your feelings to control you.

For me when my girl is with me, I get an erection & it becomes difficult to say no to the testosterone. Often it's up to her to decide what is being done.
Like I'm with her, we're in the car, this is not practical, but I want to have sex. She hates being banged in a car (I agree it's not kinda romantic), but guess what I want to.

Sometimes I force her in to this, but sometimes I don't want to, cause i know it's no fun to hear & I think she feels like an object when I do this.

Personally I hate it when she starts saying: "I don't want to" & takes the leads by saying "I want to go home/we're going home" bla bla, I'm not always in the mood for forcing her.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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advice?

Seek professional therapy.
 
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How do you 'force' her? If she's the one in control, she's setting the conditions for her intimacy.

Romance has nothing to do with it, desire is all. If you're not having sex with her as frequently or as passionately as you'd like, spin more plates. Find a woman that does meet your standards that has a passion for you. This girl's desire for you has limitations. Women will fvck guys they have a genuine desire to fvck. Women will find ways to fvck a guy they're into - they'll crawl under barbedwire and travel across the country to get after it with a guy they really want, and yes they'll fvck in a car more often than not and even outside the club she met you in IF she has a real desire to do so. This one doesn't.

NEXT.
 
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I'm with rollo, man. My last long term relationship (long time ago when I was AFC) was full of that crap. She even told me that "only wh@res give oral and no girls swallow except pronstars" Fast forward to now and I can't even find a girl that WON'T blow me and swallow. I've done all kinds of crazy $hit and had plenty of $ex in public places and, yes, even cars......

My point is that my last gf just did't WANT to go down on me or get crazy with me and it took me having a few chicks all over me to even understand that.

When a girl wants you she will even INITIATE sex. Like I said, if you've never had a girl that was REALLY nuts about you you buy into this crap. Once you know what it's like to have a girl really hot for you the kind of stuff you're talking about becomes CLEARLY BS and stall tactics on her part.

I say start studying up on creating attraction and learn to make women want you more and then next her.......

gixx
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dear Newbie,
This post was "How to be sexually strong"...For your next I suggest,"How can I nail Jelly to the ceiling?"LOL.
 
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