"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How to be outgoing and definition.
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ace of Flames
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of course, if you really ARE outgoing, then your comfort zone is a lot bigger, so.... i dunno.
an outgoing person is social. they talk to people, and people talk to them. they enjoy life and let you know it. usually the "popular crowd" shows this characteristic. as it should, since being outgoing gets you lots of friends, and you become well-known.
hope that clears things up.
How about friendly, is it good is be friendly to girls? Or is it taking away from you being a challenge? Also how does it tie into being outgoing?
Also, if friendly is good, how do become friendly?
Ace of Flames
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friendly, as in, lemme fix your problems, buy stuff for u, and be your *****? no.
and as for the confidence question, go read the bible. actually, u should read it regardless. i have a feeling you havent read it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
superman2k6
Don Juan
But it's fine to be nice to girls, friendly atleast. It depends on your character.
I have a lot of great girl friends because I'm nice to them. Platonic friends you could say.