“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How to be outgoing and definition.

crossboss

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What does it mean to be outgoing? I always hear this and I don't get it. Is it you go out a lot or something?

Thanks,

Any help apprecitated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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its not that literal. i think of it more like "going out of your shell". like leaving your comfort zone. make sense?

of course, if you really ARE outgoing, then your comfort zone is a lot bigger, so.... i dunno.

an outgoing person is social. they talk to people, and people talk to them. they enjoy life and let you know it. usually the "popular crowd" shows this characteristic. as it should, since being outgoing gets you lots of friends, and you become well-known.

hope that clears things up.
 

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That kind of clears things up.

How about friendly, is it good is be friendly to girls? Or is it taking away from you being a challenge? Also how does it tie into being outgoing?

Also, if friendly is good, how do become friendly?
 

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One more thing, confidience.

I kind of get what confidence is, not afraid. But how do you get it. I mean I hear, you can't tell yourself to be confident because it won't happen. How do you do it?
 

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friendly, as in, not an *******? yea, i guess.

friendly, as in, lemme fix your problems, buy stuff for u, and be your *****? no.

and as for the confidence question, go read the bible. actually, u should read it regardless. i have a feeling you havent read it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah your right.

I've read some of the bible but not all, but yeah, at some point I will, if I have time. Wait...I will read the bible, and will have time.
 

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to be outgoing is to be an extrovert. you project your character out-wards, you convey your personality to the world
 

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But don't be weird. I made that mistake, and I'm not a weird person, so it was fake, and screwed things up.
But it's fine to be nice to girls, friendly atleast. It depends on your character.
I have a lot of great girl friends because I'm nice to them. Platonic friends you could say.
 
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