"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How to be outgoing and definition.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Ace of Flames
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of course, if you really ARE outgoing, then your comfort zone is a lot bigger, so.... i dunno.
an outgoing person is social. they talk to people, and people talk to them. they enjoy life and let you know it. usually the "popular crowd" shows this characteristic. as it should, since being outgoing gets you lots of friends, and you become well-known.
hope that clears things up.
How about friendly, is it good is be friendly to girls? Or is it taking away from you being a challenge? Also how does it tie into being outgoing?
Also, if friendly is good, how do become friendly?
Ace of Flames
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friendly, as in, lemme fix your problems, buy stuff for u, and be your *****? no.
and as for the confidence question, go read the bible. actually, u should read it regardless. i have a feeling you havent read it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
superman2k6
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But it's fine to be nice to girls, friendly atleast. It depends on your character.
I have a lot of great girl friends because I'm nice to them. Platonic friends you could say.