"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GQzSwagStarFamous

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in what ways are you suppose to be heartless? I often hear that you shouldn't care about what people say. You should act as if nothing phases you and don't let girls in on how much you care but where do ou draw the line? how far is too far? which point is jerk point
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You can go to great lengths to be a jerk, the difference is in emotion. Act uncaring and you will win, if you are driven by emotions (ie. anger) in your *******ness you will fail.
 
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Not sure what you mean "how to be heartless" but ill just attack it with some knowledge.

Just realise that emotion and logic do not mix, listen to your logic first

How many times have you done something cause you "FELT you had to do it" but you knew it wasnt going to work or was bad. And it did end up bad.

Anyway on a different note

You shouldn't care what people say, because who cares it's their opinion. you are BETTER than that to let yourself waste YOUR energy on THEIR opinions which do NOTHING to you unless you let them.

basically be confident, strong and truly believe in yourself, and you will not be bothered by others, and make the life you truly want for youself.

On another note
Perhaps you meant "how to be strong emotionally"?
 
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Basically be strong, cause a strong person doesn't need anyone else! A strong person lets people into his life of HIS choosing.

And for girls, just never say I love you. Ever. =/ it just ticks a checkbox in their head that should never be ticked. IMO
 
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DJ_Tekinkel said:
Basically be strong, cause a strong person doesn't need anyone else! A strong person lets people into his life of HIS choosing.

And for girls, just never say I love you. Ever. =/ it just ticks a checkbox in their head that should never be ticked. IMO
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This is true!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GQzSwagStarFamous said:
in what ways are you suppose to be heartless? I often hear that you shouldn't care about what people say. You should act as if nothing phases you and don't let girls in on how much you care but where do ou draw the line? how far is too far? which point is jerk point
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You're not coming across as a heartless jerk, you're just not negatively impacted by the world around you.

You should not care emotionally about what people say to you. It gives them power over you.

I'm new at this site, so I'm not sure where "external frame of reference" vs "internal frame of reference" would be but you want the latter to be successful as a man in general. If you have an external frame of reference you'll be at the mercy of the woman as well as others around you.
 
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