“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It's clear that the way I'm thinking is wrong. But trying (for over three years now) to 'change' is apparantly not helping, it's in fact making it worse.
I do enjoy my current hobby as it is something I've always wanted to do. The side effect of the fact it's impressing too many people is a nice side effect, but is not why I chose it.
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Focus on your weaknesses one at a time, and take them head on. If you have problems approaching, become the approaching god. If you have problems making eye contact, make eye contact with everyone. Do all this 5hit until it becomes normal. Keep taking your weaknesses and turn them into strengths.
You can't just one day say "I'm going to have confidence" and have it from that day on. It takes work, and a lot of it. Turning your weaknesses into strengths will build confidence.