"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to be "alpha"

Jack101

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Hey guys,

I am a 20 year old guy who thought he was alpha just because of his looks and well because i was to o protective towards them. Few older women told me i shouldnt be soft towards them, they told me i m too easy to handle (which is kinda true).


So guys, please help me learn on how to be "alpha". How can i stop caring about women? How can i stop being nice, how can i stop being good?

Cheers :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wifehunter

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Easy, just stop.
No it's not easy. But focusing one's mind elsewhere, seems to be the key.

"I will not fix my eyes on worthless things." - ESV
 

MrWood

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be a sarcastic prick, just not directed at your TARGET
be outspoken, observant, commentitive, realistic, factual and challenging
dont be a d1ck
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AbaGanov

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there is no magic formula here. just realize that if you ever want to be successful with women you need to take charge, lead and stop being an accommodating pleaser little puppy.

at first it will feel strange, do it a few times and the beast will be unleashed.
 
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