"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to be "alpha"

Jack101

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Hey guys,

I am a 20 year old guy who thought he was alpha just because of his looks and well because i was to o protective towards them. Few older women told me i shouldnt be soft towards them, they told me i m too easy to handle (which is kinda true).


So guys, please help me learn on how to be "alpha". How can i stop caring about women? How can i stop being nice, how can i stop being good?

Cheers :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter

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Easy, just stop.
No it's not easy. But focusing one's mind elsewhere, seems to be the key.

"I will not fix my eyes on worthless things." - ESV
 

MrWood

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be a sarcastic prick, just not directed at your TARGET
be outspoken, observant, commentitive, realistic, factual and challenging
dont be a d1ck
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AbaGanov

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there is no magic formula here. just realize that if you ever want to be successful with women you need to take charge, lead and stop being an accommodating pleaser little puppy.

at first it will feel strange, do it a few times and the beast will be unleashed.
 
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