"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to be "alpha"

Jack101

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Hey guys,

I am a 20 year old guy who thought he was alpha just because of his looks and well because i was to o protective towards them. Few older women told me i shouldnt be soft towards them, they told me i m too easy to handle (which is kinda true).


So guys, please help me learn on how to be "alpha". How can i stop caring about women? How can i stop being nice, how can i stop being good?

Cheers :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wifehunter

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Easy, just stop.
No it's not easy. But focusing one's mind elsewhere, seems to be the key.

"I will not fix my eyes on worthless things." - ESV
 

MrWood

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be a sarcastic prick, just not directed at your TARGET
be outspoken, observant, commentitive, realistic, factual and challenging
dont be a d1ck
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AbaGanov

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there is no magic formula here. just realize that if you ever want to be successful with women you need to take charge, lead and stop being an accommodating pleaser little puppy.

at first it will feel strange, do it a few times and the beast will be unleashed.
 
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