"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to avoid the creep trap?

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Ok, i've just got loads of girls who think i'm a creep at work. How do i avoid these situations?! It's really hard cause it seems like woman enjoy the very things that they complain about. For instance being touched, having outrageous things said etc. How can i avoid this becoming a sexual harrassment suit when all i want to do is make love and friends. :( HELP!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alter the way you interact. If they are complaining..then you aren't doing it right. Why not just act like a normal person and converse with them first before tryign to pick them up, yes?
 
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Ahh, I operate on different principles then you would. It's like doing a 180. But..you just have to think about what creeps them out..and you change that.

Girls send signals, and even you know!
 
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so by the complete opposite of what i do is not say anything or touch them.

I'm just not entirely sure what i do that creeps them out, and maybe even if i did how i'd change it. I've slept with one girl from work (been there 2.5 months) and got about 3 numbers/e-mails on top of that... maybe ij ust stick out in my approach?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ok, I dont' just sit here and watch porn you know. Give me a little respect..lol.

You'll have to keep doing your thing and OBSERVE their reactions. If you can tell they aren't enjoying it, or are giving longshot signals to their gals..you are doing something wrong and should drop her for the day.

Just keep observing and adjusting..and you'll understand what I mean.

(of course..there's the chance they will permently think of you as a creepy person, and that's nothing I can do.)
 
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I suppose i could kill them and bury them in the park? j/k. I need more social proof methinks.
 
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I think the thing is they really get off knocking me down a peg, and I'm quite a powerful guy personality wise, so they must feel like they need to go to extreme measures to claim back a bit of dignity that they think they've lost, i actually respect them but maybe it just doesn't come across. :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Doesn't anyone here feel that dipping your pen in the company ink is a bad thing? :confused:
 
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