Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to avoid the creep trap?

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Ok, i've just got loads of girls who think i'm a creep at work. How do i avoid these situations?! It's really hard cause it seems like woman enjoy the very things that they complain about. For instance being touched, having outrageous things said etc. How can i avoid this becoming a sexual harrassment suit when all i want to do is make love and friends. :( HELP!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alter the way you interact. If they are complaining..then you aren't doing it right. Why not just act like a normal person and converse with them first before tryign to pick them up, yes?
 

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Ahh, I operate on different principles then you would. It's like doing a 180. But..you just have to think about what creeps them out..and you change that.

Girls send signals, and even you know!
 

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so by the complete opposite of what i do is not say anything or touch them.

I'm just not entirely sure what i do that creeps them out, and maybe even if i did how i'd change it. I've slept with one girl from work (been there 2.5 months) and got about 3 numbers/e-mails on top of that... maybe ij ust stick out in my approach?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok, I dont' just sit here and watch porn you know. Give me a little respect..lol.

You'll have to keep doing your thing and OBSERVE their reactions. If you can tell they aren't enjoying it, or are giving longshot signals to their gals..you are doing something wrong and should drop her for the day.

Just keep observing and adjusting..and you'll understand what I mean.

(of course..there's the chance they will permently think of you as a creepy person, and that's nothing I can do.)
 

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I suppose i could kill them and bury them in the park? j/k. I need more social proof methinks.
 

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I think the thing is they really get off knocking me down a peg, and I'm quite a powerful guy personality wise, so they must feel like they need to go to extreme measures to claim back a bit of dignity that they think they've lost, i actually respect them but maybe it just doesn't come across. :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Doesn't anyone here feel that dipping your pen in the company ink is a bad thing? :confused:
 
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