Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
how would I ask one girl if she has a bf or not with out directly asking her or getting the , "why?" after i ask
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thatguyjamalx
Don Juan
When she says something, Ask her something like;
Her: I fart so much redbull blah blah blah,
You: Your BF must hate that?/That must drive your BF nuts...
She'll have no option but to answer... something, so gauge her response physically more than verbally. And you'll get an answer, then neg her + C+F, it works for me.
Her: I fart so much redbull blah blah blah,
You: Your BF must hate that?/That must drive your BF nuts...
She'll have no option but to answer... something, so gauge her response physically more than verbally. And you'll get an answer, then neg her + C+F, it works for me.
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Don't ask her if she has a boyfriend. Don't ask her out. After chatting with her for a bit, just say you got to get going but would like to continue the convo over coffee when you got some free time. Or something to that tune
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
what I do is if me and the girl I like are talking ill say something like so does your b/f also like rock music? and she will say yep he does or no I dont have a b/f.
after you hear that, thats the good news lol.
after you hear that, thats the good news lol.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
just ask her if she has a BF man you are stating your intentions and showing confidence, if she asks why say "oh i was just wondering you seem like a person id like to get to know" something along those lines or just simply "i just wondered"
smooth guy
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The "innocent" mention of the bf has been done even in the movies...might as well just ask her straight ahead.
Don't ask or mention a bf. After a few interactions you'll know if she has a bf or not - and if she does and you still didn't know, take it as a good sign.
Don't ask or mention a bf. After a few interactions you'll know if she has a bf or not - and if she does and you still didn't know, take it as a good sign.