Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
how would I ask one girl if she has a bf or not with out directly asking her or getting the , "why?" after i ask
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thatguyjamalx
Don Juan
When she says something, Ask her something like;
Her: I fart so much redbull blah blah blah,
You: Your BF must hate that?/That must drive your BF nuts...
She'll have no option but to answer... something, so gauge her response physically more than verbally. And you'll get an answer, then neg her + C+F, it works for me.
Her: I fart so much redbull blah blah blah,
You: Your BF must hate that?/That must drive your BF nuts...
She'll have no option but to answer... something, so gauge her response physically more than verbally. And you'll get an answer, then neg her + C+F, it works for me.
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Don't ask her if she has a boyfriend. Don't ask her out. After chatting with her for a bit, just say you got to get going but would like to continue the convo over coffee when you got some free time. Or something to that tune
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
what I do is if me and the girl I like are talking ill say something like so does your b/f also like rock music? and she will say yep he does or no I dont have a b/f.
after you hear that, thats the good news lol.
after you hear that, thats the good news lol.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
just ask her if she has a BF man you are stating your intentions and showing confidence, if she asks why say "oh i was just wondering you seem like a person id like to get to know" something along those lines or just simply "i just wondered"
smooth guy
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The "innocent" mention of the bf has been done even in the movies...might as well just ask her straight ahead.
Don't ask or mention a bf. After a few interactions you'll know if she has a bf or not - and if she does and you still didn't know, take it as a good sign.
Don't ask or mention a bf. After a few interactions you'll know if she has a bf or not - and if she does and you still didn't know, take it as a good sign.