Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
how would I ask one girl if she has a bf or not with out directly asking her or getting the , "why?" after i ask
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thatguyjamalx
Don Juan
When she says something, Ask her something like;
Her: I fart so much redbull blah blah blah,
You: Your BF must hate that?/That must drive your BF nuts...
She'll have no option but to answer... something, so gauge her response physically more than verbally. And you'll get an answer, then neg her + C+F, it works for me.
Her: I fart so much redbull blah blah blah,
You: Your BF must hate that?/That must drive your BF nuts...
She'll have no option but to answer... something, so gauge her response physically more than verbally. And you'll get an answer, then neg her + C+F, it works for me.
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Don't ask her if she has a boyfriend. Don't ask her out. After chatting with her for a bit, just say you got to get going but would like to continue the convo over coffee when you got some free time. Or something to that tune
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
what I do is if me and the girl I like are talking ill say something like so does your b/f also like rock music? and she will say yep he does or no I dont have a b/f.
after you hear that, thats the good news lol.
after you hear that, thats the good news lol.
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just ask her if she has a BF man you are stating your intentions and showing confidence, if she asks why say "oh i was just wondering you seem like a person id like to get to know" something along those lines or just simply "i just wondered"
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The "innocent" mention of the bf has been done even in the movies...might as well just ask her straight ahead.
Don't ask or mention a bf. After a few interactions you'll know if she has a bf or not - and if she does and you still didn't know, take it as a good sign.
Don't ask or mention a bf. After a few interactions you'll know if she has a bf or not - and if she does and you still didn't know, take it as a good sign.