"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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alrite, i like this chick and she likes me. i was going to ask her out but she found out i liked her and asked these questions and it ended up to saying, we can either go out now or hang out a bit and make it official. we hung out and then she was like, lets make valentines the offical date when we going out. now, idn how to ask her out, i dont if i should just say, "so how about that date" or the simple dumb one, "so will you go out with me?"

help is appriciated ASAP.....gotta goto bed knowing wut to say to her tomorrow morning at school
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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make what official? The date?

Just tell her she's going on a date with you.
 

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she was like ya we going out but we arent, so i just gotta ask her out to make it offical that we are going out

so then should i just say, "so how about that date?" or b like, "we going on a date". i feel more comfortable saying the first one haha
 

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just tell her u r goin on date together....
no need to ask like "so how bout the date?" makes u sound insecure/not confident/ etc etc etc.....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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alrite thanks.........thinking that makes more sence now.
 

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alrite, i choked at school with her cuz i got super nervous and didnt think..........im callin her today.....wut should i say?
 

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Call her up and be like "Lets go out tonight", we can hit a movie and some dinner afterwards.


Kiss her towards the end of the night, so it doesn't feel too ackward.


Simple as that.
 

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Originally posted by lazyazz
anyyyyyyyyooooooooooonnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeee?????????
Can you teach me how to ask for directions? I don't know if I should go to a gas station and ask someone or find some random stranger and ask. I mean, can you help me??? Pretty please!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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