"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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lazyazz

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alrite, i like this chick and she likes me. i was going to ask her out but she found out i liked her and asked these questions and it ended up to saying, we can either go out now or hang out a bit and make it official. we hung out and then she was like, lets make valentines the offical date when we going out. now, idn how to ask her out, i dont if i should just say, "so how about that date" or the simple dumb one, "so will you go out with me?"

help is appriciated ASAP.....gotta goto bed knowing wut to say to her tomorrow morning at school
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AverageFC

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make what official? The date?

Just tell her she's going on a date with you.
 

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she was like ya we going out but we arent, so i just gotta ask her out to make it offical that we are going out

so then should i just say, "so how about that date?" or b like, "we going on a date". i feel more comfortable saying the first one haha
 

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just tell her u r goin on date together....
no need to ask like "so how bout the date?" makes u sound insecure/not confident/ etc etc etc.....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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alrite thanks.........thinking that makes more sence now.
 

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alrite, i choked at school with her cuz i got super nervous and didnt think..........im callin her today.....wut should i say?
 

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Call her up and be like "Lets go out tonight", we can hit a movie and some dinner afterwards.


Kiss her towards the end of the night, so it doesn't feel too ackward.


Simple as that.
 

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Originally posted by lazyazz
anyyyyyyyyooooooooooonnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeee?????????
Can you teach me how to ask for directions? I don't know if I should go to a gas station and ask someone or find some random stranger and ask. I mean, can you help me??? Pretty please!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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