"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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alrite, i like this chick and she likes me. i was going to ask her out but she found out i liked her and asked these questions and it ended up to saying, we can either go out now or hang out a bit and make it official. we hung out and then she was like, lets make valentines the offical date when we going out. now, idn how to ask her out, i dont if i should just say, "so how about that date" or the simple dumb one, "so will you go out with me?"

help is appriciated ASAP.....gotta goto bed knowing wut to say to her tomorrow morning at school
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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make what official? The date?

Just tell her she's going on a date with you.
 

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she was like ya we going out but we arent, so i just gotta ask her out to make it offical that we are going out

so then should i just say, "so how about that date?" or b like, "we going on a date". i feel more comfortable saying the first one haha
 

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just tell her u r goin on date together....
no need to ask like "so how bout the date?" makes u sound insecure/not confident/ etc etc etc.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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alrite thanks.........thinking that makes more sence now.
 

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alrite, i choked at school with her cuz i got super nervous and didnt think..........im callin her today.....wut should i say?
 

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Call her up and be like "Lets go out tonight", we can hit a movie and some dinner afterwards.


Kiss her towards the end of the night, so it doesn't feel too ackward.


Simple as that.
 

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Originally posted by lazyazz
anyyyyyyyyooooooooooonnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeee?????????
Can you teach me how to ask for directions? I don't know if I should go to a gas station and ask someone or find some random stranger and ask. I mean, can you help me??? Pretty please!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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