"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to ask her out?

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I'm not that experience with girls and only girls I've been out with are the ones who I've attended school with or worked with but recently I met this girl in GNC near my work. I've been there 4 times and we talk for like 10 to 15 mins and I can tell that she has high interest but I could be wrong and the only way to find out is to ask her out but I need advice whether I should ask her out or should I ask her join me for a coffee.. but not sure how to word it properly so that I don't come across as desperate. Just to let you know that I'm not a talker and often people think that I'm a quiet person.

Need Advice!!

Thanks,
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you've had four fifteen minute conversations with her, she already knows that you're interested, maybe desperate.

You are not more quiet than me or a lot of guys here are. So you can drop that excuse.

Relax! Ask her out. The worst thing that's going to happen is that she will say 'no'. No one will die or suffer embarrassment if she says no.

You've got this!
 
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Be in a hurry one day.. When the convo starts up smooth, say "hey, I gotta run... Let's pick this up later. How about tomorrow at 7pm and wherever?"

Or just say "I want to go to xxx place Thursday, are you free?".

Remember, "Rejection is better than regret"!
 
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MOTU said:
Be in a hurry one day.. When the convo starts up smooth, say "hey, I gotta run... Let's pick this up later. How about tomorrow at 7pm and wherever?"

Or just say "I want to go to xxx place Thursday, are you free?".

Remember, "Rejection is better than regret"!
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This is perfect. Be in a hurry, and ask real quick. There is no point in dragging it out with 15 minute conversations if you're not going to pull the trigger. If she says no, just say "ok, no problem, see ya!" And you jet on outta there.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dear Seeker,
Wrong mind set...you never ask them out,you just mention that you are going wherever,and that she is welcome to tag along!
 
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