"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to ask for the phone number in front of her friends?

Starriol

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I went to college today and after leaving, I saw a girl with a male and a female friend.
I knew that this guy had some problems with an exam, so I aproached him and started conversation, talking to the 3 of them.

Then, I started focusing on my target (an 8.5 blondie that I was really hot for).
So I get her laughing, it's quite obvious she liked me.

Guess what!
After we both enjoy the convo for like 5 minutes, I think "I better get going, need to do somethings"... but I didn't have the balls to ask for the phone number in front of her friends.

I mean, I started getting insecure about her friends opossing or her not wanting to be seen as a *****.

****... I think the key is just GO FOR IT.

Whatcha guys think?
On the bright side, I found the balls to approach a group, which always been my weakness.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Starriol

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Yeah, but what when you can't isolate her?
She was walking with me and her friends and she took the same bus with her female friends... so it was impossible to isolate her.

How would you handle this?
I guess I should have just go for it.
 

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If you have the balls to approach a group of women, what's stopping you asking for her number? I'm going to have to guess on this one, because my campus sucks, but here's betting a little inner game work fixes this problem.
 

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Dude...you have nothing to lose and everything to gain, the next time you stop to talk with a group of girls and one of them peeks your interest just start up a conversation and if that goes smoothly then just say "We should do __________ sometime, whats your number?"
 
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