"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to ask for the phone number in front of her friends?

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I went to college today and after leaving, I saw a girl with a male and a female friend.
I knew that this guy had some problems with an exam, so I aproached him and started conversation, talking to the 3 of them.

Then, I started focusing on my target (an 8.5 blondie that I was really hot for).
So I get her laughing, it's quite obvious she liked me.

Guess what!
After we both enjoy the convo for like 5 minutes, I think "I better get going, need to do somethings"... but I didn't have the balls to ask for the phone number in front of her friends.

I mean, I started getting insecure about her friends opossing or her not wanting to be seen as a *****.

****... I think the key is just GO FOR IT.

Whatcha guys think?
On the bright side, I found the balls to approach a group, which always been my weakness.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah, but what when you can't isolate her?
She was walking with me and her friends and she took the same bus with her female friends... so it was impossible to isolate her.

How would you handle this?
I guess I should have just go for it.
 
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If you have the balls to approach a group of women, what's stopping you asking for her number? I'm going to have to guess on this one, because my campus sucks, but here's betting a little inner game work fixes this problem.
 
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Dude...you have nothing to lose and everything to gain, the next time you stop to talk with a group of girls and one of them peeks your interest just start up a conversation and if that goes smoothly then just say "We should do __________ sometime, whats your number?"
 
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