"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to ask for the phone number in front of her friends?

Starriol

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I went to college today and after leaving, I saw a girl with a male and a female friend.
I knew that this guy had some problems with an exam, so I aproached him and started conversation, talking to the 3 of them.

Then, I started focusing on my target (an 8.5 blondie that I was really hot for).
So I get her laughing, it's quite obvious she liked me.

Guess what!
After we both enjoy the convo for like 5 minutes, I think "I better get going, need to do somethings"... but I didn't have the balls to ask for the phone number in front of her friends.

I mean, I started getting insecure about her friends opossing or her not wanting to be seen as a *****.

****... I think the key is just GO FOR IT.

Whatcha guys think?
On the bright side, I found the balls to approach a group, which always been my weakness.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Starriol

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Yeah, but what when you can't isolate her?
She was walking with me and her friends and she took the same bus with her female friends... so it was impossible to isolate her.

How would you handle this?
I guess I should have just go for it.
 

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If you have the balls to approach a group of women, what's stopping you asking for her number? I'm going to have to guess on this one, because my campus sucks, but here's betting a little inner game work fixes this problem.
 

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Dude...you have nothing to lose and everything to gain, the next time you stop to talk with a group of girls and one of them peeks your interest just start up a conversation and if that goes smoothly then just say "We should do __________ sometime, whats your number?"
 
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