"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
how to ask a girl to prom? or do i even ask?!?!?!?ASAP
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If she really wanted to go with you, she wouldn't need to "get back to you".kingxxxman said:theminatar and stateofmind...thank you for your words.... i finally took action after being apathetic and did it in a "cute way" sorta of chumpy in my opininon but everyone asks" will you go to prom with me" and she told me she would get back to me... W.E i'm happy i did it and i can live with no regrets. thanks guys for the help. hopefully she says yes but im not holdin my breath.
I would just move on. Sh!t sucks, but there's plenty more out there.
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No, PERSISTANCE! No reason to give up.QuodErat said:If she really wanted to go with you, she wouldn't need to "get back to you".
I would just move on. Sh!t sucks, but there's plenty more out there.
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Remind her, don't ask every single day. Just ask once or twice here and there, remind her that you asked her and are still waiting for an answer. Don't pressure her because then she'll automatically say no.kingxxxman said:norwegian, you mentioned being persistent? I didn't see her all day and i don't think im gonna bug her about getting back to me so i don't seem desperate. I think i played off the situation when i asked off really nicely. What do you mean by being persistent and how do i do it?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Always assume the sale.
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Sounds like you're wearing a dress then. I'd say go for what I said.kingxxxman said:so next time i see her maybe something along the lines of "Hey_____, you pick out a dress yet? cause we gotta match"
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Way too much. Just shut up and carpe the **** out of this diem.NorwegianDJ said:You ask too much
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Haha, I love that quote myself. Nice site.amohield said:Way too much. Just shut up and carpe the **** out of this diem.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Shut the **** up and go to prom with her already! :rock:kingxxxman said:norwegian your line also sounds like im wearing a dress as well lol...other suggestions?
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I know right, it's like we're controlling his life.QuodErat said:Shut the **** up and go to prom with her already! :rock:
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.