"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how to ask a girl to prom? or do i even ask?!?!?!?ASAP

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theminatar and stateofmind...thank you for your words.... i finally took action after being apathetic and did it in a "cute way" sorta of chumpy in my opininon but everyone asks" will you go to prom with me" and she told me she would get back to me... W.E i'm happy i did it and i can live with no regrets. thanks guys for the help. hopefully she says yes but im not holdin my breath.
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Good luck, make sure to let us know how it goes.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kingxxxman said:
theminatar and stateofmind...thank you for your words.... i finally took action after being apathetic and did it in a "cute way" sorta of chumpy in my opininon but everyone asks" will you go to prom with me" and she told me she would get back to me... W.E i'm happy i did it and i can live with no regrets. thanks guys for the help. hopefully she says yes but im not holdin my breath.
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If she really wanted to go with you, she wouldn't need to "get back to you".
I would just move on. Sh!t sucks, but there's plenty more out there.
 
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If she really wanted to go with you, she wouldn't need to "get back to you".
I would just move on. Sh!t sucks, but there's plenty more out there.
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No, PERSISTANCE! No reason to give up.
 
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norwegian, you mentioned being persistent? I didn't see her all day and i don't think im gonna bug her about getting back to me so i don't seem desperate. I think i played off the situation when i asked off really nicely. What do you mean by being persistent and how do i do it?
 
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norwegian, you mentioned being persistent? I didn't see her all day and i don't think im gonna bug her about getting back to me so i don't seem desperate. I think i played off the situation when i asked off really nicely. What do you mean by being persistent and how do i do it?
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Remind her, don't ask every single day. Just ask once or twice here and there, remind her that you asked her and are still waiting for an answer. Don't pressure her because then she'll automatically say no.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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would i just ask her out of the blue when i see her or lead up to it? "like soo ___name____ you think about what i asked you?"
 
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"Try wearing something cute at (Insert event here), so we match."

Always assume the sale.
 
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Should be just like asking for a date.. At some point in the conversation just say you all should go to prom together.
 
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so next time i see her maybe something along the lines of "Hey_____, you pick out a dress yet? cause we gotta match"
 
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so next time i see her maybe something along the lines of "Hey_____, you pick out a dress yet? cause we gotta match"
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Sounds like you're wearing a dress then. I'd say go for what I said.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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right. Now should i just say that first thing when i see her next time or work up to it.....
 
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norwegian your line also sounds like im wearing a dress as well lol...other suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Say the first thing that comes to mind.
 
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norwegian your line also sounds like im wearing a dress as well lol...other suggestions?
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Shut the **** up and go to prom with her already! :rock:
 
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too bad she has to say yes first and i haven't seen her/talked about it with her in 5 days....
 
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5 days still. will see her in school tmrw... lets see what happens. not even gonna bring it up.... ill talk to her about more important things i care about. maybe she'll see that i really don't care about her decision and life goes on. I did what i could and its up to her.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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